Phase One: The Honeymoon Stage
Duration: 1-2 months
This stage is characterized by intense affection and a desire to spend every moment together. Conversations seem endless and there’s a strong sense of attachment.
Phase Two: The Comfort Stage
Duration: 3-4 months
As the relationship progresses, conversations may become less frequent. Both partners start noticing each other’s flaws, the initial passion may fade, and minor disagreements may occur.
Phase Three: The Dispute Stage
Duration: 5-8 months
The initial excitement has worn off and disagreements over mundane aspects of life become more frequent. This stage often sees a peak in arguments and silent treatments.
Phase Four: The Breakup Stage
Duration: 8-12 months
Conflicts increase and partners may feel they’ve drifted apart from the person they initially fell in love with. Feelings may seem to have faded, leading one partner to suggest a breakup.
Phase Five: The Adjustment Stage
Duration: 12-18 months
Partners start understanding each other better and are willing to make changes for the sake of the relationship. The frequency of arguments decreases, leading to a deeper bond and understanding.
Phase Six: The Long-term Stage
Duration: 18 months onwards
Emotions stabilize and arguments become less frequent as partners understand each other better. At this stage, couples may decide to get married or commit to a long-term relationship.