[Penile penetration is one of the best things I know of in life, and it’s physically and mentally
pleasurable.
Vaginal sex usually ends in orgasm and takes about two to three minutes.
My lover can have two orgasms every time we have sex, occasionally up to three, so we don’t
have to slow down, we just have to enjoy ourselves as we make love. I love the feeling of my
penis inside my vagina, listening to his moans and exclamations, and feeling him pulsing up
and down with total enjoyment.
Mentally, I really like the security of having a penis inserted inside me and, I would love for
him to stay inside my vagina for as long as possible. Sometimes, we would just stay in this
penis-in-vagina position and go to sleep happily.
One woman wondered if she was weird because she had always been able to orgasm during
vaginal intercourse with ease. It should be clarified that just because most women are unable
to have an orgasm during vaginal intercourse, it does not mean that a woman who can have
an orgasm from it is a strange woman.
Moreover, the reason some women can have orgasms during vaginal intercourse is simple
and not at all mysterious, and it lies in the actual and sufficient stimulation of the clitoris. This
reason is discussed in detail in the rest of this book.
Mast and Jonson’s doctrine of the female orgasm
The findings of this study have already been presented: how a woman can have an orgasm
during vaginal intercourse. We will continue with the findings of Mast and Jonson to see how
they explain why women orgasm during vaginal intercourse.
Both Mast and Jonson emphasize the importance of clitoral stimulation, and they believe that
a woman’s orgasm is due to direct or indirect stimulation of the clitoris.
Therefore, they advocate that during vaginal intercourse, the clitoris receives indirect
stimulation through the poking and prodding action of the penis after penetration, and thus
the woman achieves orgasm through this, with the in and out action of the penis causing a
pull on the labia minora through the poking and prodding of the penis back and forth.
Indirectly, the skin covering the clitoral glands (the clitoral prepuce) is affected.
When the vagina begins to secrete wetness to facilitate penile penetration, a mechanical
contraction occurs on both sides of the clitoral foreskin where it joins the labia minora. With
rapid penile thrusting, the two flanks of the clitoral prepuce begin to contract, and the entire
clitoris is pulled downward by this contraction until it is exposed beyond the vulva. When the
penile shaft enters a retracting phase from the insertion of the penile shaft into the vagina,
the contraction of the clitoral prepuce is relieved, and the clitoris and clitoral head are
retracted back into the labia minora, restoring the normal appearance of the vulva. The
regular contraction of the clitoris on its own, combined with the rapid poking of the penis,
causes indirect stimulation of the clitoris.
It should also be emphasized here that this indirect clitoral stimulation can be found during
every raw intercourse in which the erect penis is fully inserted into the vagina.
In short, the clitoral prepuce, which is connected to the clitoris, is also connected to the labia
minora, and during vaginal intercourse, the incessant poking and prodding of the penis
causes regular mechanical contractions of the swollen labia minora (Note! They presuppose
that female sexuality is a passive response), which leads to the stimulation of the clitoral
prepuce and the clitoris. Xue Fei specifically named this theory the “preputial-glandar
mechanism”
mechanism), which means that [the stabbing motion of the penis in the vagina pulls on the
labia minora, which in turn pulls on the areas surrounding the clitoris (e.g., the clitoral
prepuce), and thus pulls the swollen clitoris outward during the back-and-forth stabbing
motion of the penis]. In other words, the final stimulation of the clitoris is indirectly driven by
the friction of the clitoral prepuce.
This doctrine, which de-emphasizes that the friction of the penis against the vaginal lining
brings about a woman’s orgasm, can be considered a major breakthrough in sexological
theory. However, the introduction of this model of female orgasm and its subsequent widespread popularity in American society gave women the mistaken impression that a
woman should have to have an orgasm during vaginal intercourse in order for it to be
considered normal and natural.
Mast and Jonson based their example of female orgasm on their observations of the
responses of female subjects in their experiments, specifically screening women who could
orgasm during vaginal intercourse.
This is not to be taken seriously, because the women who are capable of having an orgasm
during vaginal intercourse are only a few specific women, and it is clearly a fallacy to
extrapolate the experience of these specific subjects to all women.
Of course, this argument is still valid, as long as you presuppose that a woman must have an
orgasm during vaginal intercourse to be considered normal, otherwise it’s a dysfunction (Mast
and Jonson define this inability to orgasm during vaginal intercourse as [vaginal orgasm
defect], and a woman who has never experienced an orgasm is called [primary sexual
disorder])