When you think of the need to change yourself in a stripped down way, you have actually proved that you possess a latent motivation, which is psychologically called subjective initiative. You can quietly read this article, which in itself is a change, a kind of upward force. Of course next I need to provide you with some methods and ideas to help you become a better version of yourself.
Starting in 2021, a word called “involution” has become particularly popular. Involvement means that everyone is working very hard, but with little success and with no idea where the end is in sight, representing a deep sense of helplessness.
Often we have to understand that it is not always possible to achieve certain results just because we have worked hard, but you certainly don’t get any results if you don’t work hard.
This article does not want to pull too much meaningless nonsense, and do not want to write as chicken soup, I give you some specific ways, no matter how you just stick to it, it is impossible not to gain.
The end result of the narrative in this article varies from person to person
Getting up early is the beginning of everything.
No matter how you want to change, it must not start from lying in bed. You need to get up at 6:00 every day and start planning everything you have and executing it, that’s where all the change begins.
You have to realize that waking up early especially for years and years consistently is a particularly difficult thing for young people nowadays, if you can do this thing, let’s not mention how useful it can be, but at least you’ve already surpassed 90% of the people.
Getting up early is very important, and I know you can get things done in the afternoon or evening, but I’ll tell you from over a decade of experience: it’s not right, and important work needs to be done in the morning. This not only fights procrastination, it keeps you in the habit and reaps huge efficiency dividends in the long run.
Optimize your appearance
No one wants to know your mind, no one wants to listen to your story, and you have to be careful to optimize your appearance if you want people to come closer to you, whether you’re a guy or a girl, this is very important and will become more and more important in the future.
Often times when your appearance is improved, it is actually you yourself that is improved, as you are able to make others more pleasant and thus reap the dividends that are possible. Work on improving your appearance, even if it means going to the hospital and getting a few cuts! It’s so important.
Enhance your mind
Reading books and traveling is undoubtedly an important way to enhance your mind, but it’s obviously like the right kind of nonsense. The key is that you need to make it a habit, just as it was said earlier that you must get up early every day, and get up early for what? As long as you get up early, you won’t let time pass you by, you’ll have something to organize.
You have to make more friends.
Socializing is a kind of learning, socializing is even more important than reading books than traveling, you must meet new friends, do not always go online to meet some netizens, go to watch other people’s shows, go to see those netizens live, which although you can also make friends, but such a friend, there is no smell, can not be touched, can not be in the actual life of the impact to you, the real learning is to make friends. This sentence, please remember.
True friendship is being able to smell their sweat and see the creases on their face. To be able to feel the bad perfume that TA sprayed in order to pretend to be X. To be able to see his embarrassment and see him blush. To see that the person who turned out to be so ordinary can be so awesome in some places.
You can only really be influenced by the friends you make in real scenarios.
Make your work more imaginative
If you are doing a job that is at a glance, if you are a young person or at least someone who feels that you will have room for improvement in the future, then don’t do something that is a duplication of labor, your job must be imaginative and there must be room for improvement. You’re hardly going to be the richest man in the world, like me, but you can at least live a slightly better life than those around you. And that, in turn, requires some imagination in the work you do.
Finding the right person for your body and soul.
Your one, your pillow, your other half will change your life in a subtle way, there is no exaggeration at all in this statement, finding that TA who is physically and mentally compatible is incredibly important, even as important as your career prospects, this statement still sounds very dogmatic, but you need to pay some price in order to find the TA, and even spend more time to do so, and even keep some kind of desire inside you, you are just Until then, you shouldn’t stop tossing and turning.
Do one thing every day.
When you want to change, it’s unlikely that your goals are very clear, and as a young person, you’re unlikely to be able to anticipate the changes that will happen in the next 10 or 20 years. You are unlikely to plan your future with a schedule.
But there are some things you are perfectly capable of doing well, and that is doing one practical thing every day. Whether it’s writing an article every day, or going to the gym every day, or reading every day, or even meeting a new friend every day, it’s called doing a real thing.
You need to fight your emotions with rational things. Never let your bad moods get in the way of your daily work and organization. Do one specific thing every day, and don’t go to bed until it’s done!
When I finish writing the above articles, I will find that there are some that I myself do not do very well, but I dare to write it out, which stems from the fact that I have applied some of the ideas in this article, I have to do a practical thing every day, I have to write an article every day, I have to export the cognition that I have formed in the middle of my own brain every day, it is possible that it will help you, and it is possible that it will enlighten you, but the most important thing is to help me myself to become better.
Because until I get better, you won’t be able to believe whatever I write, no matter how well I write it or how much time I spend on it. But if I become accomplished someday, you’ll come back to this article and maybe it will inspire you in some shocking way.
I’m one of those people like you who wants to get better, so if you’re reading this, maybe we can make a friend.