Before marriage:
- Girls with discernment will not be easily moved by superficial warmth, small gifts, and those low-cost considerations. It is the qualities of a man who has stable emotions and whose values and pursuits align with yours that are the most precious luxury. Because after the honeymoon period, what really allows you to attract each other and weather the storms is: after every conflict, he cares about your feelings, doesn’t get angry and blame. Willing to communicate with you actively, solve problems together, and he understands what you want, so that the feelings will not be worn away in the future.
- Before marriage, a boy who is unwilling to take safety measures and lets you take pills, you must clearly define the bottom line and resolutely not compromise. The more you understand the principle of contraception, the more you know the unreliability of external and taking pills; under any circumstances, don’t have a fluke mentality, the cost of abortion you can’t afford. In addition, such boys are generally scum, either mama’s boys or just playing around, without exception.
- The key to a high-quality relationship: sincere communication. Many love tips teach girls to indirectly ask their boyfriends for requests, such as wanting the boyfriend to accompany more, wanting a gift, and indirectly testing the other party. This is pushing you into the pit, these small cleverness will only make the two people who are originally closest, have very low communication efficiency, and also make the other party feel that you are insincere, and the two people will be tired in the end. Two people who really trust each other, communication is the least need for mind games, only sincerity, will solve the problem faster, and make each other feel more comfortable.
- People who make you self-doubt and feel unhappy from the heart, must stop loss in time, this is respect for your own life. It’s not terrible to meet the wrong person, but it’s really terrible not to pull out in the wrong feelings. You have 100% control over your feelings, we don’t know who we will meet in the next relationship, whether it is good or bad; but if this relationship is not good, it should stop loss in time. Countless cases have proved that people who have the courage to take this step have found true love.
- If you plan to get married, you can consider cohabiting before marriage for about half a year. In case of problems, such as form marriage, don’t think this is far away from us, it’s better to break up than to divorce, but be sure to take safety measures.
- Instead of focusing on his house, car, and how much betrothal gifts, it’s better to focus on people. Do you know? The ultimate misfortune of marriage is not caused by money, but by people. The best qualities of a man are a love for life and emotional stability. Being with such a person, even if you are poor, your happiness index will not be low, and most men with such qualities are potential stocks, and the probability of more gold after marriage is very high.
- A good marriage is mutual achievement, mutual support and growth, this is the ultimate meaning of marriage. A truly confident man who loves you, if you are busy with your career and rarely take care of trivial matters at home, he will understand you and is willing to support you, willing to use his strength to help you achieve results. But there are many men who are not confident, and after marriage they will only come to consume you, hit you, they are incapable, and they do not allow you to grow.
If your fiance is the one who encourages you to learn and grow; maintains a state of curiosity, you can consider getting married on the spot.
