- Avoid comparing “how many luxury gifts others’ boyfriends have bought”.
- Maintain your ability to think independently and avoid over-reliance on others.
- Security comes from within. Not needing reassurance is the ultimate freedom.
- Don’t hold onto grudges. Some issues can be let go.
- Your partner lives in reality, not in an idealized world.
- The ability to let go is a virtue.
- Don’t assume you can change others, nor believe you’re saving them.
- Kindness and understanding are more important than talent and looks.
- Marriage is a serious commitment, don’t rush into it.
- Material aspects are crucial in a relationship. Love alone is not enough.
- It’s okay to part ways if you’re not compatible. It’s a normal part of dating.
- Less complaining and negativity can greatly enhance the quality of your relationship.
- Lower your expectations to avoid major disappointments. Focus on the ways he shows his love, rather than the ways he doesn’t.
- Don’t be overly clingy, it can be off-putting.
- Strive to improve yourself, both physically and mentally.
- Everything you do in a relationship is part of the process of understanding and accepting yourself.
- Infidelity and domestic violence are unforgivable!
- Respect your body and don’t rush into physical intimacy. The person you like may not be your forever person.
- Focus less on others’ flaws and more on your own happiness.
- The ability to let go is a sign of maturity.
- Always remember that the world is full of ghosts, but don’t trust a married man’s words.
- Your parents will always love you the most.
- Always remember, you are beautiful, amazing, and talented. Be confident!
- Short-term pain is better than long-term suffering.
- Love yourself a little more each day.
- Those who easily suggest breaking up are immature. Once words are spoken, they can’t be taken back.
- “Cherish the moment” is a phrase I like. Don’t obsess over the details, and don’t blow them out of proportion.
- Control your love, don’t over-invest, the more you give, the greater the disappointment.
- Don’t lose yourself in love, take a step back and evaluate the relationship when necessary.
- Strive to be the best version of yourself, so no one can leave you.
- Men can have a strong rebellious streak!
- Appreciate the good things your partner does for you and reciprocate appropriately. Mutual respect and appreciation make a relationship last.
- Never take a man’s promises for granted, just take them with a grain of salt.
- Don’t assume that being kind to others will be reciprocated.
- It’s best not to mention your ex in front of your current partner, as it can lead to unnecessary comparisons.
- Regarding “sex”, everyone has different views, the most important thing is whether you are comfortable or not.
- It’s a virtue to appreciate valuable answers on platforms like Zhihu.
- May you always be safe and joyful, the most beautiful girl in the world.
I have received some private messages these days, and I have also received many likes and affirmations. I am nothing special. I can say this not because I am good at dating, but because I have stepped on these pits. I am also an ordinary girl who is blind to elephants in love. I hope that saying these more or less can help you who see this comment.
- Communication is really important in relationships, especially when two people quarrel, giving the other party a way out is also a kind of charm.
- Nothing is taken for granted, don’t think that the other party’s payment is supposed to be. Although the other party doesn’t say it, one day will let the painful facts tell you.
- Don’t always think that what you give her is what he wants, and listen carefully at the right time.
- There is no pure friendship between men and women, don’t naively think that the other person just wants to be friends with you.
- Deception and cheating are definitely fatal injuries to feelings. And it’s irreversible forever
- Judging scum men is always the most important technical core
- The one who loves you will always be careful, the one who plays you will always be reckless.
- Love also has an expiration date, dating for too long is not a good thing!
- Men and women think differently, express your thoughts when you have problems.
